Now it’s not necessary for either of you to reveal any secret attractions to the other person, but when love enters a friendship, could there ever be an easy transition into love unless it’s mutual?[Read: How to date a friend] If love doesn’t, sex does If either of you don’t end up falling in love with each other, sex enters the equation.And how important it is to develop a strong friendship as a foundation, before heading into romance. “ DAWSON: Friendship and dating are very important. That being said, since you didn’t say what your feelings are for this guy, I’m guessing you don’t have romantic feelings for him.So for him, this is unquestionably a very delicate situation.[Read: How to have sex with a friend] New troubles with a new boyfriend Let me assure you, your new boyfriend will hate your guy best friend right from the start. You may try to convince your new boyfriend that your BFF is not sexually interested in you at all, but there’s no way your new man will ever be convinced of that.He may never understand the relationship you and your BFF share. And the sneaky part here, your guy best friend may actually start liking the attention he’s getting out of the complication.You’ll drive away a lot of guys No guy likes dating a girl who’s got a guy best friend. Confusions, jealousies and hidden feelings always crop up and complicate the relationship.
They’re out there in the world to sow their wild oats.And when you find that he doesn’t show the slightest interest in you, it’ll hit you on your face like an insult.And whether you like it or not, there’s a big chance that it’ll also damage your self esteem and confidence in attracting the opposite sex, especially if he’s a sexy guy who’s obviously straight. No guy can ever have a happy and insecurity-free relationship with a girl who has a guy best friend.You feel great around him and he seems to like you too.And the funny thing is that neither of you feel anything tingling around the loins.