When sexual exploration becomes goal-oriented, satisfaction becomes secondary, and we risk missing out on the various kinds of emotional and physical satisfaction sex offers."It is helpful to imagine sex as a journey," blogger wrote.Also: Asking him if he could please take the trash down when he leaves your place without worrying about never seeing him again.And not feeling compelled to constantly check his Twitter. 2013: Making out, less graphic sexting, sending partly-clothed naked pics, following him on Twitter, favoriting his tweet, thinking everything he tweets is hilarious even though your friends are like, "That's not even funny-funny, that's just funny weird." Introducing him to your cat. 2013: Oral sex, regular sex, not being afraid of over-texting him anymore, looking his ex-girlfriend up on Facebook (shes pretty!1935: Fondling, manual stimulation of the genitals (clothed).2013: Totally unclothed naked pics, more graphic sexting, handjobs. ), looking at his ex-girlfriends Twitter and finding that her most recent tweet was "haha croissants lol" (shes boring!
Imagining what your wedding, first child, and divorce will be like."It helps to focus on having fun throughout, instead of doing what it takes to reach the 'goal' of orgasm.If you're not taking pleasure in the journey — or at least indulging some curiosity — then why keep going?Copyright (c) 2011-2012 Lance Metzger This is going to sound cheesy, but I am going to share it with you anyway.For years, the first date was the worst part of the dating process for me and my date.