Such victims have no memories of what happened while under the drug’s influence. Spelled “FBSM ”, means “with a bonus” and usually means a BJ. It generally implies more about the tone & tenor of the session than about specific services provided, but many believe GFE should include the possibility of DFK, DATY, UTF and a broad array of FS positions.An ASP takes the advertised fee upfront, but in the midst of the session she asks for more money for more services. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.), aka upselling. Supposedly better than a GFE, and even more nebulous. The pseudo-sexual act of placing the penis between the butt cheeks of the receiving partner.When an ASP or hobbyist doesn’t show up for an appointment and has not contacted the other party in advance to cancel or warn of problems in making the appointment.A very annoying and, unfortunately, too common occurrence in the hobby.This is mainly a comical practice, and usually enjoyed by the giver more than the receiver. Actions aimed to cause a submissive a feeling they long after.These are the things they normally don’t do, like wearing bizarre clothing, having sex in public, playing puppy or pony, or accepting verbal abuse.When the offending party doesn’t call afterwards to offer an explanation and/or apology the situation is referred to as a No-Show/No-Call (NS/NC) and is considered an even more egregious offense.A popular roleplay fantasy that sees the submissive transform into a pony with the help of a harness, reins, gag bit, and a tail attached to a butt plug.
The word “crone” was (and in some circles still is) a derogatory term for an old woman.
Looks/Attitude/Service: A subjective ranking system where each criteria is separately ranked, from lowest (1) to highest (10).
Examples: 2/9/8 = Unattractive, but very friendly and good sex.
If you ever log onto Grindr, SCRUFF or one of the dozens of other knock-offs only to feel like you’re lost in a sea of newfangled and, at times, completely nonsensical acronyms, you’re not alone.
And now we speak in the gibberish of ABS (abbreviations). And in the land of hookups, time is of the essence.