A 30 year old and 19 year old are in two completely different places in their lives. I'd just instantly stereotype it as the older one taking advantage of the younger one, because 90% of the time, that's going to be the case.But if it works for some people, more power to them, and I hope they're happy. _________________What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun. We love water and green trees, there is nothing in the desert. Something about the gap just doesn't compute in my brain, something is just "off" about it.I think it'd bother me less if it was say a 22 year old and a 32 year old.And from those, people seem to enjoy projecting it onto every large-age-difference couple. I kind of weirds me out a little, and my parents even had the 10 year gap, my father was 27/28 and my mother was 17/18 when they first met, I was born when my mother was 23.I'd never go for someone that young, but I guess whatever floats their boat, they're both legal and it's not like she's being forced into it.
For me, and many other women like me, it all begins with a number. Before agreeing to a set-up, as a follow-up response or even playing a flirtatious game, I always find the answer to the question, “So, how old are you? And if you don’t know who the Seavers are from "Growing Pains," then you don’t stand a chance.
That's not much of an age difference at all, I've got no problem with it. The chance is slim on any relationship being long term anyway. If a younger/older person makes you happy and you both have common interests and chemistry I say go for it!
Many times you'll have a less mature 25 year old guy and a very mature 19 year old girl and they'll really hit it off. In general a 30 year old should not be dating a 19 year old. That's not much of an age difference at all, I've got no problem with it.
the 18 year old is probably in college and still young mentally. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over ,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum.
You know those girls who refuse to date anyone younger than they are, much less anyone their own age? ) And I obviously have the matching theory as to why to go along with it (naturally, it involves being the younger sister).